Wednesday, November 30, 2016

Thanksgiving Weekend: Food, Friends, Wind, and a Sunny Day at Hanalei


 This picture is all wrong chronologically for this post, but it is the coolest shot we've had in a long time and I can't wait to throw it in a frame.  Hanalei!  The pier.  Clear water.  Sunshine off the mountains.  Perfect.
I typically dread Thanksgiving a little bit.  It's not my favorite kind of food, and I slave over it while I sweat my brains out in the kitchen when all I really want to do is take my kids surfing and call that our Turkey Tradition.  This year, I turned a corner and really loved it.  The weather all week leading up to the big event was rainy and cold, which meant my kitchen was not 90 degrees and I did not want to take my kids surfing.  Instead, they helped me peel potatoes, make salads, take apart pomegranates, and roll pie crust while we listened to music and danced all afternoon.  I loved the pride they felt with the contributions they made to our dinner assignments.  This year, we made the huge vat of mashed taters, a spinach/pear/pomegranate salad, pumpkin pies, and our (silly) raspberry jello/pretzel/cream cheese "salad".  

The morning of, I snuck out on my annual 7 mile run.  I'm not sure exactly when I decided my Turkey Trot needed to be 7 miles, but I'm pretty sure it happened at BYU in response to Kristen Edwards saying, "I think everyone should run 7 miles on Thanksgiving."  So I do, and I love it.  Brady took Zachary to play football at 9am, and they played their hearts out.  Zac wants it noted that he made 2 touchdowns and one interception.  (A few days later, after listening to the BYU football game in the car, Zac came to me and asked, "Mom, do you think I should consider playing football for BYU?")  While the boys played, Kate had a few friends over.  She also ran 2 miles with me because she wanted to participate in a Turkey Trot, too.  Way to go, little lady.  
 Heidi had her house beautifully decorated and the food this year was killer, even to someone who claims this isn't her favorite food.  My favorite was Heidi's sweet potato dish, but there were many contenders for best dish this year.

It dumped rain after dinner, but that didn't stop kids from playing outside and getting drenched.  They played for hours--long enough to dry off, play countless games of 4-square and basketball, and compete in washer toss.  Zachary and Jack played the washer game for 90 minutes straight, coming in only long enough to shout that they'd both "scored a cup!"  Ha!  We finished off with lemon meringue, pumpkin, blueberry, and banana cream pies.

The next day, we did a few chores and then left for Polihale to hang out with the Hadleys and Clarks.  It was extremely windy at our house, so we worried it would be a bad day on the west side (the sand blows hard on the west side).  Unfortunately, that was an accurate prediction, but we found a more protected spot on the beach and tried to surf the messy water.  The sand dunes were the winner with the kids and they climbed up and down all afternoon, playing King of the Hill, tag, and Capture the Flag.  This is the only picture we have the entire day.

Saturday, we carved out the entire morning to watch the OSU v. Michigan game.  It didn't disappoint, heading into double overtime, and ending with a W for OSU.  Zachary was into it the entire game, and the kids jumped around and danced after the final play of the game.


After the game, we jetted up to Hanalei, which felt more like a 2-hour crawl through traffic and reminded us that yes, Hanalei is further away than Polihale.  Whew.  The drive up, we were rained on over and over again, and we felt confident that we'd be sitting under an umbrella all day, but we were wrong and pulled in to sunny skies.  The boys darted off to surf immediately, but not before capturing Zac's mean surf face.

Zac "dropping in" on Ty.
We met up with Nic and Heidi and Nikki and Istvan's families.  They doted on Owen and built him a little sand bath to play in.



Zachary made himself a sand bath, too, because he's the original sandman in the Edwards' house.

The waves were nothing great, but they were fun enough.  Small and far between, but still surfable if you paddled really hard.


Sand never gets old.  Playing with friends in the sand is the best thing ever.

Sand booger!
Our friendship with these two is coming up on a decade.  Love them.  They've dubbed our families the Clarkwards.  A few things about the Clarks:  they never miss an opportunity to serve, they always beat us to wherever we are heading for the day, and they are really witty.  It's a big win for us in the friends department.

Finding little waves to ride.

A tourist came up with a bunch of tag games for the kids to play together.

Zachary body surfing.
Kate was lucky and found 4 of her preschool friends camped out right next to us.  They joined in the fun and played for hours, too.
The best part about Kate's boogie boarding style is that she rides the wave, and turns on a huge grin at the end when she sees the camera.
Brady surfing.

We cruised down the beach to the pier and the Kate and the Clark kids jumped off a few times before calling it quits because it was FREEZING with the wind.  Kate charged it and jumped off first.

This baby!  Sigh.  I can't believe how lucky we are to kiss his chub and rub his (finally-sprouting-hair) head on our cheeks every day.



 Kate impressed us big time with her resolve to surf.  She couldn't surf at Pavilions (where we were all day before walking to the pier) because the break was not good for her ability level and they were not rolling nicely.  Instead, she waited patiently until early evening and went out, shivering the entire way, to catch her goal: 3 waves.  She rode them in a hurry and so well!  I'm so happy with her balance!  She doesn't surf on her boogie board like Zachary used to, so I assumed surfing would be harder for her, but she jumps right up!

Her resolve to surf also scored me this gem, which is one of my favorites ever:

We snapped these just in time on Brady's phone.  Ahhhhhhh, love Hanalei.



 On the way home, we popped into Safeway.  Owen was irritable and sick of the car, but as soon as he got on Brady's shoulders, turned that frown upside down.  When Brady wasn't walking, he'd grab at ears and hair, but as soon as he walked, Owen threw his arms straight up in the air and giggled.  Roller coaster!

We came home exhausted from so much beach-hopping.  I'm joking.  You don't get that tired from beach-hopping--you feel amazing and refreshed and completely lucky and you come home and tackle huge piles of laundry (and sand).

Thankful.  That's how I feel.  I'm so thankful and my heart is so full.  I look at my kids and Brady and I can't believe how much love my heart can hold.  Happy Thanksgiving.

Sunday, November 20, 2016

November: Sunset, Sickness, Speedy Zac, and Surf

 November's first weekend started with a long-anticipated camping trip to Polihale.  The wind was gusty around the island in the week previous but that's not what almost stopped the excursion.  We had all kinds of anxiety when Kauai went on lockdown chasing down an armed jail escapee the day of the trip.  The man ran through a middle school campus, came down to Koloa to rob a pharmacy, and headed to the mountains before finally getting booked by police at 4pm that day.  The kids sat in silent lockdown for 4 hours.  I was happy with how the school handled the emergency and angry at the armed idiot who required this much attention.  Most of all, I'm glad no one was hurt.  This incident took place exactly two days after Brady told a concerned Zachary that gun violence is rare on Kauai.

 With all that crazy behind us, we made it to the beach and set up in time to enjoy a sunset and make a nice fire for dinner.  We had 5 other families join us that weekend, and it was fun to hear the boys play King-of-the-Hill and the girls run around with glow sticks.  I love that camping requires my kids to be creative and come up with their own fun.



 They played hard, we visited with friends, and then finally put the kids to bed.  Several hours later, we came to the tent to find Zachary sound asleep like this:
It was a rough night with loud waves (too loud, if that's a valid complaint), and we were awake for most of the night, but somehow we still bounced out and sleeping bags the next morning and had a lovely day.  The ocean was too rough for swimming or water sports, so instead I went on a long run while Brady held sleepy Owen.  The kids played on the tall, packed sand dunes--climbing and digging and scraping around for hours.  We did end up getting in the water for a short time before packing up and heading home, strangely refreshed yet again from an exhausting night and satisfying day.  
Kate woke up on Halloween day with a cold, and that cold migrated it's way around the family to hit 5 out of 5 of us.  Owen was next, and I knew I wasn't escaping it after he sneezed multiple times right into my mouth.  It's the achy, congestion-packed, sinus headache, can't-stop-coughing type and it's had us down for weeks.  Day-to-day is the same of course, but our enthusiasm about getting into water has been dampened.  Har har har.  

Here's a picture of my snotty little grump:


Kate looking snazzy in her new pants.  She wore them the first time while Brady was working on Big Island and knew he'd want a picture of her in them.

This is how my workouts end each day if I don't start the second Owen lays down for a nap.

 My favorite scene each day: watching Owen tag along with Kate and Zac at their practice sessions.

 With our yucky colds, we weren't sure about running the annual Koloa Sugar Mills half marathon.  We never miss this race.  Brady also has a knee issue right now, so between hacking coughs and injury, we opted for the 10k.  Zachary woke up the morning of the race at 5am, complaining that he didn't feel well.  He had a fever of 102.  We knew it was over for us, and decided one of us would race and the other would stay home and watch the kids (I volunteered quickly after coughing all night long).  However, at 6:20am (40 min before the race gun), he came down dressed and ready to go, asking why we were still in bed.  We figured he knew his body best and if he wanted to tough it out, we would let him.  We decided against giving him race strategy or encouraging him to run as fast as he could, etc.  5k is a long way for an 8-year-old, especially a sick one.

I ran the kids over to a friend and rushed to the start line.  I made it with time to spare and barely missed the start of the 5k.  Brady and I took off a few minutes later with 125 others for the 10k.  We were both surprised to be leading the pack.  I ran with my friend Leigh, who raced with me years ago in the half.  With three miles to go, it was Brady in first and me in second.  We've both run only one other 10k before, and we certainly weren't conditioned for speed, but it was fun to lead a race.  In the last mile, another guy picked me off, so I finished third overall but first for women.  Brady won the whole thing.  He ran a 43 min with 6:58/mile splits and I ran a 44 something with 7:12/mile splits.  We do realize that on the mainland, there is no chance in heaven we could win a race with those times, but hey, a W is a W and it felt pretty good, even on a sick day.  The best part of the race was watching for Zachary at the turnaround and seeing him running along with his bright red face and huge smile.

He was the hero.  Zachary ran a 28:20 for his 5K--2 full minutes faster than last year and without any running companion.  All his miles from 100 mile club paid off!  After his race, he asked if he could go home and sleep on the couch.  He was so proud of himself all day, wearing his shirt and my medal (his age division was 1-13, and he came in 4th and just out of medals).  I love that we did not push him and this drive came all from himself.

 That afternoon, the kids suddenly decided they needed to put in their Santa requests.  "The elves need to know, Mom!"  They worked away while we shampooed the carpets, watched football, and sneezed.



 Kate takes pride in how much Owen loves her.  She says she can babysit now because she can give Owen his bath.  This was actually the first bath in a month where Owen wasn't freaking out.  He laughed and splashed and played during what has been his least favorite part of the day.  Maybe she is old enough to babysit.  Ha!  (He still can't stand getting his jammies put on--all those buttons!)
This past weekend, we went to Kate and Zachary's piano performance class, and then headed up to Hanalei.  It was a terrible day for weather, raining hard all island-wide.  It was still great surf, although miserable for anyone not in the water.  We made the most of it, loved our rides, watched Zachary and the Hadley boys play for hours, and came home shivering to mugs of cocoa and some tortilla soup.  A sunny day at Hanalei is impossible to beat, but you don't get a lot of sunny days at Hanalei.